Open-Minded

Why do people feel they need to get so upset over things they cannot control? Or even worry about it? I used to be this way; worrying about every little thing, getting upset at someone because they thought or were doing something one way instead of the way I expected it to be done.

In reality there’s no right or wrong way to get things accomplished. It is like that saying, “There are many ways to skin a cat.” Just because it’s not done the way I think it should be done, doesn’t mean its wrong. Doesn’t mean you should get upset over it and cause a fight. What I am saying is that you should have an open mind. Don’t jump to conclusions. Get all the facts and then decide what you should do or say. Life is too short to get upset over the little things.

Another thing I want to get off my chest is why do people feel the need to lie to me. I get when I was younger I was a huge “goody-goody” but I have grown up. I am not going to tell you how to live your life. It’s your life, you’re an adult now, and do whatever you want. I am not sure if they are ashamed of their life and lie, or don’t tell me everything, because they don’t want me to judge them.

I have been blessed to have a man that has taught me to be open minded about everything. That you shouldn’t judge someone and jump to conclusions. That being kind gets you further in what you want in life then having an attitude and being nasty to people.